Deanne
HELLO, I’M
Your Soulful Meditation Mentor
For years, I moved through life holding it all together on the outside, but disconnected from self-love underneath. I was the woman who held space for everyone but had no refuge for herself, who learned that love meant giving herself away, who found worth in how much others needed her.
Eventually, that way of living took its toll. A marriage that ended in betrayal. Physical exhaustion. My body and soul were asking me to stop and listen.
Here, your softness is sacred. Your voice matters. Your healing journey is honoured. Through The Sovereign Self-Love Journey, I hold space for your transformation, 24 audio lessons with guided meditations and journal prompts that become sacred ceremonies of coming home to yourself.
My meditations also live on Insight Timer, the world's most-loved meditation app, where they've been played over 36,000 times by women around the world.
The Unravelling
Let me tell you about the little girl I once was, the one whose tender heart first learned the language of abandonment after her parents separated, who spent years feeling rejected, not enough, and somehow "too much" all at once. Out of those early wounds, she quietly promised: "If I just love hard enough, give enough, need little enough, maybe no one else will leave."
What followed was decades of people-pleasing perfection. I became the woman, girlfriend, and wife who mothered, managed, and supported until my own essence was buried under duty. I built my life around who I used to be, the woman who could please enough, give enough, be enough. When life kept showing me that softness wasn't safe, I armoured myself in doing, achieving, and striving, building walls of productivity around my heart.
The universe kept offering lessons. Until the biggest one arrived: after fifteen years of marriage, it ended in betrayal. Everything I'd built my identity around, being the devoted wife, the woman who loved hard enough, shattered. This was the unravelling, my heart and soul broken.
The emotional exhaustion, the shock, the stress that lived in my body every single day. The shame of ignoring my own feminine knowing, my intuition, the whispers my body had been sending me. I'd overridden every signal, silenced every gut feeling, dismissed my own inner wisdom because speaking my truth felt more dangerous than appeasing.
My body had been trying to tell me. I'd abandoned myself, shrinking to keep the peace, people-pleasing at the expense of my truth, disconnecting from myself to belong, overgiving and over-functioning until I couldn't recognise myself anymore.
Each relationship had reflected back my deepest question: "Am I worthy of love?" My worth felt tied to how much I could please, how much I could give, how little I could need. Until I'd completely lost myself. But this betrayal became the sacred pathway to my own sovereignty.
The Sacred Cracking Open
I was broken and this was my awakening.
I honoured my healing journey, trusting what I was guided to, stepping into Reiki Master Teacher training, deepening my practice through ThetaHealing, and discovering the sacred power of guided meditation. These weren't fixes for what was broken, but remembrances of what was always whole. Each modality became a portal for returning home to myself.
Through these practices, I began to return to my own body. To listen instead of override. To trust her whispers instead of silencing her. My body became my teacher, showing me what safety felt like, what truth felt like, what alignment felt like.
I was no longer available for overgiving and calling it love. I was no longer available for shrinking myself to keep the peace. I was no longer available for explaining my boundaries to earn permission.
Slowly, tenderly, I chose self-love over self-abandonment. I chose to trust my body's wisdom. I chose my sovereignty, the woman I was always meant to be.
I remember the moment I chose myself; my body softened, my intuition was clear, my purpose revealed itself. I was home. This was sovereignty.
The Soulful Mentor was born from this transformation, the sanctuary I wish I'd had when I was no longer who I used to be, but not yet fully the woman I was becoming.
"She stopped apologising for taking up space and started celebrating the light she brought to every room."
My Approach
Three Sacred Pathways
Through my healing journey, I discovered that transformation happens in three pathways and these became the foundation of The Sovereign Self-Love Journey.
Pathway 1: Healing Sacred Self-Love
Over twenty-six years practicing Reiki and years holding space for women's transformation at Beaches Healing, one profound truth emerged: how you love yourself is how others love you.
Through Reiki Master Teacher training and thousands of healing sessions, I discovered that self-love isn't earned through perfection, it's remembered through unconditional self-acceptance. I learned to honour my needs, create sacred boundaries, and gently transform my inner critic into my wisest ally. Now I guide women to remember that same sovereign self-love.
Pathway 2: Awakening Body Wisdom
My body had been carrying years of relationship trauma, every moment I chose others over myself. Through somatic healing, ThetaHealing, and embodying my feminine, I began listening to her whispers instead of overriding her signals.
The woman who didn't honour her body's intuition slowly learned to trust, feel safe, and move with grace. A nervous system tired from hypervigilance finally discovers safety in softness. This is the body-based wisdom woven through every lesson and meditation.
Pathway 3: Aligning Your Sovereignty
After healing my heart and reconnecting with my sacred vessel, I was ready to step back into life as a sovereign woman. One who speaks her truth, receives abundance, claims her desires, and is fully seen in her power.
“Sovereignty is a choice. It's saying yes when your soul says yes. It's stepping into your purpose. It's embodying magnetic presence. It's becoming the woman you were always meant to be”.
Sacred Sounds for Your Sovereignty
This is my carefully curated Sovereign Self-Love Spotify Playlist, divine feminine anthems that mirror the woman you're becoming. Each song chosen to awaken your power, celebrate your truth, and remind you that your voice, your softness, your fierce love matters.
Press play and embody your becoming.
The Sovereign Self-Love Journey
Through years of lessons, trauma transformation, and holding sacred space for women's healing journeys, The Soulful Mentor was born as a sanctuary for remembering your wholeness.
Today, I share this work through The Sovereign Self-Love Journey, 24 audio lessons with guided meditations and integration journal prompts that guide women through three sacred pathways: healing your heart and soul, awakening body wisdom, and aligning sovereignty. My meditations have been played over 36,000 times on Insight Timer by women around the world. Healing clients asked for meditations they could journey with in their own sacred spaces, and their voices reminded me that healing doesn't end when we close a door, it evolves into a way of living.
The Soulful Mentor meets you in the sacred space between, when you're releasing who you were, but haven't yet stepped fully into who you're becoming. Through practices that honour your unique rhythm, this work gently supports women through seasons of transformation with deeper self-love, body wisdom, and sovereign alignment.
There's no rushing here. Just space to breathe, feel, and remember. This is frequency work. It is soul reclamation. Through Reiki Master Teacher energy, ThetaHealing, and guided meditation, I help women tenderly transform the beliefs that keep them small and remember the sovereignty that was always theirs.
"Her softness was not weakness, it was the courage to remain open in a world that taught her to close."
Your Invitation
I share my story not to focus on the wounds, but to illuminate the gentle alchemy that transforms our deepest challenges into our greatest gifts. Every moment of feeling lost guided me home to my own embrace. Every choice to heal instead of hide brought me closer to this truth: You are not broken. You are becoming.
If your heart is whispering "me too," you're not alone.
Begin with my free meditation, She Remembers Her Sacred Truth, or step into the complete transformation with The Sovereign Self-Love Journey and let me guide you home to the sovereign self-love that has always been your birthright.
It's the space I wish I'd had.
The Sacred Infinity
The infinity symbol at the heart of The Soulful Mentor represents the eternal journey of a woman's becoming, never ending, always expanding, beautifully continuous, ever-evolving.
One loop represents who you were, the woman who learned to dim her light, who carried the stories of abandonment and self-abandonment, who armoured herself in doing, achieving, and striving. This loop honours every experience that shaped you, every wound that became wisdom.
The other loop represents who you are becoming, the sovereign woman who chooses self-love, who trusts her body's sacred wisdom, who speaks her truth with grace. This loop celebrates your expansion into your divine feminine power.
The sacred centre where they meet is the present moment, where transformation happens, where healing occurs, where you remember that you are not broken, you are becoming. This centre is not a destination but a continuous spiral of evolution, where each cycle brings you deeper into your truth.
The lotus symbol above represents the ultimate truth: like the lotus that grows from muddy waters into pristine beauty, every challenging experience has been preparing you to bloom into the radiant woman you were always meant to be.
Trauma becomes wisdom. Pain becomes power. Wounds become wings.
This is the journey of infinite becoming, flowing through three sacred pathways, restoring self-love, awakening body wisdom, and aligning sovereignty, as you return again and again, each time deeper, to the self-love that has always lived within you.